Take whiff of common games you may get through!
v Gas Lighting
How to OVERREACH: Disengage and walk away.
Negative Humor
Making critical remarks disguised as sarcasm or humor to make you feel inferior or less secure.
How to OVERREACH: Remain calm. Smile and put that person in the spotlight by asking questions.
v Victim-hood
Designed to exploit your good will, guilty conscience, protective and nurturing instinct in order to benefit personally.
How to OVERREACH: Don't get emotionally involved or let go that relationship.
v Pretend Ignorance
Playing dumb in order to get away with behavior or things.
How to OVERREACH: Judge action not intention.
v Projection
Criticizing others for things they do themselves as well.
How to OVERREACH: Don't take the bait and remove yourself from the arena.
v Guilt Tripping
Passive aggressive way to remind you of something bad you did in order to make them want to make up for it.
How to OVERREACH: Respond with empathy but trust your intuitions.
v Silent Treatment
Ignoring messages, calls or questions to make you feel uncertain and to make you start doubting yourself.
How to OVERREACH: Ignore it until it blows over.
v Constant Criticism
Constantly marginalizing, ridiculing and dismissing you to make you feel inferior and to make them feel superior.
How to OVERREACH: Say thank you and get on with your life.
v Throwing a Tantrum
Raising their voice, using a lot of gestures and sometimes even physical abuse to get whatever they want.
How to OVERREACH: Stay calm. Set boundaries. Give space.
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